Propelled by the feeling of Shy, Despondence

We withdraw when we retreat from interpersonal realities while maintaining our sensitivity to them.

"I am sensitive, therefore I must create a space of perfect safety where nothing can touch me." Withdrawal offers advanced versions of a babe’s instinct to simply fall asleep when overstimulated. Not participating is not the same as being absent. A Withdrawn person might have some of the most insightful commentaries about what they just seemingly slept through. The drawback for Withdrawal is that it does not make space for interpersonal sharing. The habit to immediately cut off from all things distressing, creates endless tensions in relationships.

 

Awake, Attuned

As Adults we Withdraw as a means to experience inner safety while remaining Playful, Engaged

  • There is a consensus reality - where we perceive that which is agreed upon as reliable. In this shared reality, we generally see four “acceptable” combinations of defense mechanisms operating. Developed in early childhood, they continue to operate as a basic temperamental style throughout adulthood. Here we see Withdrawing as it combines with its four common partners.

    When Withdrawing is combined with Detaching =

    I behave as a Hermit - Withdrawing from my feelings while seeking to be Attuned

    When Withdrawing is combined with Projecting =

    I behave as an Adversary - Withdrawing from my feelings while seeking to be Valiant

    When Withdrawing is combined with Disavowing =

    I behave as a Mercenary - Withdrawing from my feelings while seeking to be Abiding

    When Withdrawing is combined with Denying =

    I behave as a Vagabond - Withdrawing from my feelings while seeking to be Profound

Sovereign Hermit

Withdrawing and detaching from my feelings while seeking to appear Attuned

Valiant Adversary

Withdrawing and containing my feelings while seeking to appear Passionate

Abiding Mercenary

Withdrawing and disavowing from my feelings while seeking to appear Composed

Profound Vagabond

Withdrawing and denying my feelings while seeking to appear Generous

  • Dark wave energies are experienced outside the accepted norms of reality, usually occurring in the form of a persistent Doppelganger, a nemesis to our accepted sense of selfhood.

    As our attachment to the rotating Defense Structures within us dissolves, attention turns to disembodied dark waves that we find alive in our environment. There are 18 available to the witnessing eye. As we gain a more direct relationship to these Dark Wave entities, we place ourselves at the Gates of Dawn.

 

Meet the Autist within

Do you find yourself disturbed by the appearance of those with autistic spectrum tendencies in your world? Might you recognize in their appearance, a doppelgänger to your own unresolved actualization of Divine Compassion?

A state of Withdrawal from one’s own Languishing feelings blinds one from any capacity for Confidence with others and creates the Dark Wave entity witnessed in the

The Ponaturi

(the Maori legendary creatures who are fatal in daylight)

Open to the sensations of this all consuming avoidance, suffering to stay hidden.

This state of reality-blockade can best be soothed by giving attention to Divine Compassion

 

Meet the Incel within.

Do you find yourself disturbed by the appearance of the involuntary celibates in your world? Might you recognize in their appearance, a doppelgänger to your own unresolved actualization of Divine Innocence?

A state of Withdrawal from one’s own Spiteful feelings blinds one from any capacity for Optimism and creates the Dark Wave entity witnessed in

Hone Onna

(the Japanese folklore figure of deep, maladaptive sexual fixation)

Open to the sensations of this fatal intimacy that would consume the object of its desire.

This state of reality-blockade can best be soothed by giving attention to Divine Innocence

 

Both the Ponaturi (Autist) and Hone Onna (Incel) suffer the unmet need for

Sanguine Optimism

First and foremost, set aside the impulse to withdraw from feelings of Discouragement and Spitefulness.

In the pause of that quiet moment,

turn there to the presence of these two Pipers at the Gates of Dawn

designed by True Self to usher forth Divine Compassion and Divine Innocence.

  • Actualizing the Great Elephant of Divine Compassion

    and the Great Wolf of Divine Innocence

    offers Sanguine Optimism

    to the dark wave energies of the Autist and the Incel

    Focus on the call of these Pipers in you.

    They point you toward non-dominant aspects of your True Self.

    What would you be willing to learn and actualize from your own Divine Compassion and Innocence?

 

Great Elephant of Compassion

Great Wolf of Innocence

 

I call upon Compassionate Innocence to meet

Ponaturi and Hone Onna energies

within myself and between myself and others as one Being.

This call is aided by observing the following Personas and Natural Forces already at work in my world.

  • Idealist

    • Zero Point Core: A state of minimal energy, characterized by quantum fluctuations and an underlying reservoir of potential. Being the still point of a spinning gyroscope

    Confidant

    • Harmonic Resonance: The amplification of vibrations due to matching frequencies, Singing in harmony, cancelling discordances

    Jester

    • Tidal Forces: Gravitational difference across an object; Stretching and distorting influence to the breaking point.

    Vanguard

    • Capacitor: Accumulator of energy differences across an insulator; rapidly releasing electrical charge. Unspoken words, waiting release

    Ascetic

    • Isotopic Container: A carefully regulated system containing potent energy, shielded from external influence. Enduring the dualistic forces of binding and decay

    Martyr

    • Homeostatic Regulator:  A self-correcting system, sacrificing internal elements to maintain a critical balance. Enduring external pressures to preserve integrity of the whole

  • Guide

    • Nuclear Fusion: A process of synthesis where light nuclei combine under extreme conditions, releasing vast energy and creating heavier elements. Like the engine of stars

    Influencer

    • Gravity: A mass-based deformation of spacetime; compelling objects to follow its path. A presence, altering the trajectories of those within its field.

    Conspirator

    • Subduction Zone: A region where one tectonic plate slides beneath another, generating immense friction and pressure. Unresolved conflicts, buried and held

    Perfectionist

    • Stellar Nucleosynthesis: A meticulous process of nuclear fusion; carefully forging heavier elements from lighter ones under immense pressure. Like a fractal, infinitely repeating a pattern of increasing complexity.

    Entertainer

    • Nuclear Binding: A unifying energy, constantly drawing nucleons into a shared existence.

    Grandstander

    • Incandescent Core: A self-generating source of luminous intensity. Inner radiance, attracting receptive gazes

These Divine Energies are best suited to address the needs of the Autist and Incel for

Sanguine Optimism