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Personas are the interactive roles we play in the world. We do this by embodying three FERUS at once:
an Insulating FERA (black border) ,
an Escalating FERA (red border),
managed by a Resonating FERA (white border) that sits between the two.
At the core of the Fixer burns competing desires to charge toward and away from intimacy.
Counteracting the urge to hide by enacting countless solutions,
courting conflict and bypassing feelings bring unexpected opportunities for kinship.
This Persona arises in response to the instinct for Social Inclusion. Until you free yourself of its hold, you will experience yourself in the grip of its cause to be a
Force of Correction
Harnessing loyalty through the dismissal of human need
Self Inquiry for the Fixer
My role as a Fixer doubles down on a demand to experience strength. Behaving as Fixer helps me to hide my withdrawn nature under the guise of relentless engagement in others’ problems. Failing to integrate both the playful and shy parts of myself, I can end up stuck in annoyance with others.
When feeling Shy, what stories do I tell myself?
Beneath my energetic Determination, it occurs to me that ….
When Playfulness arises, these are its messages…
If acting the role of a Fixer is no longer serving my Dignity, I may swap out parts of this Persona and assume a new Persona while still addressing integral emotions.
Personas that utilize the spirit of my Energetic Wildebeest
“Loiter, stampede; later practice your gallop”
Personas that help me reconcile between my Shy Manatee and Playful Dolphin
“Lingering smarts, so just look away…
Forces focused, aligned, intelligent”
The Fixer shares a common aspiration to be Valiant with the Heartbreaker .
Together they give access to the Quest of the Torch.
